Sex is a normal part of human life. We may try to hide it from others but most of us do enjoy sex in our daily lives. We enjoy the act of sex and we do think about sex from time to time. A couple who has a romantic relationship will often bond over sex. Sexuality is something that should be encouraged in people and they should get proper education about it. Kenya is a country that is known for its traditional values which often means that people have to keep sex undercover. It doesn’t mean that they do not enjoy sex.
Pornography in Kenya:
Currently, creating, possessing or viewing pornography is illegal in Kenya. So, you wouldn’t be able to browse through sites that show you pornographic content. Several people all around the world view pornography as a medium to masturbate or even have sex. It is often the way through which teenagers or young adults get to know about sex and sexuality. The reason behind pornography being banned can be the bad side of pornography which includes pedophilia, illegal filming or even rape. The Government had to take strict action against it and so they did.
What is Pedophilia? See this article.
The question that arises is about the other ways through which a person can explore their sexuality and have some fun in their daily lives. One of the things that have been popular in the world is the use of sex toys.
What are sex toys?
Sex toys are ‘adult toys’ or objects which have been specially designed to bring sexual pleasure to a person. A sex toy is often phallic shaped and it may also resemble a real penis. Sex toys come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and variants. The ones with vibration are quite popular among men and women. You may think that sex toys are something new, but in reality, they have been present among us for ages. Sex toys are available for both men and women so that they can have their desired pleasure. Some common objects include dildos, vibrators, penis rings, Ben Wa balls, butt plugs, etc. The toys can be used both vaginally and anally. The sex toy market of the world is booming and individuals, as well as couples, are using the toys to spruce up their sex life.
So, isn’t it obvious that Kenyans will also demand a way to pleasure themselves? It has been seen that more and more people are using websites which sell sex toys. There are big websites that sell all sorts of dirty things which are meant for bringing sexual pleasure. This includes everything from dildos to condoms to erotic lingerie to bondage tapes. The people are going for it and they know what they are doing. The young people are most enthusiastic about using sex toys as they think that it brings them much-needed excitement. Also, the easy availability of sex toys helps them to experiment with their bodies which is much needed to have good and healthy sex.
Benefits of Using Sex Toys:
You may have already read about sex toys but most of the time you were given wrong information about the items. Rather than being ashamed you can actually include it in your life to make more exciting. There are several benefits of using sex toys. Some of them are:
- Getting to Know Yourself: Many people use sex toys for masturbation, so it is about pleasuring themselves. This is great as it helps a person to explore their pleasure points and knows about the things that can help them to reach an orgasm. Sex toys can actually help to open up a world of sexuality that a person may have been unaware of. Sex toys also minimalize the need to get into sexual relationships, if the person wants to be wary of them. Also, it has been seen that sex toys may bring amazing orgasms which are absent in sexual relationships.
- Bringing fun to the bedroom: Have you ever thought about using a dildo or a vibrator when you are having sex? You can actually try it and this may provide you with a new experience. Let us be real, normal sex gets boring after a while. Even if you try several different positions, sometimes they are of no help. So, a sex toy can spruce things up and you can actually indulge in a newly discovered playtime. Many people get irritated because of the lack of sex, but sex toys can help to fill that gap. A fun thing is that couples can actually try sex toys for both partners.
- Improvement in Sexual Performance: Do you think that you can always excel in sex? In reality, very few people have that capability and most of the times, the sex becomes unsatisfactory after a while. So, the introduction of a sex toy can actually increase your sexual performance. Try out a vibrator for yourself and try to use it when you are having sex. We are sure that you will get better orgasms and you will actually feel satisfied with the experience. Usage of sex toys can also boost your confidence and you can find new ways to use the sex toy to bring the utmost pleasure.
- Orgasms: This is especially for the ladies who seem to lack orgasms when they usually have intercourses. Sometimes the intercourse can become intense and irritating at the same time. Women often lack the desire to have sex because of the bad experiences that they have had in the past. Sex toys can actually help them to get better orgasms. A vibrator can be a great way to include better foreplay where the women get to please themselves.
- Starts a conversation: After a couple has had sex for some time, they end up skipping conversations on sex. They think that stagnancy has to be present with time. This far from the truth, they can always spruce up their sex life so that there is something new to do. The decision of using sex toys during sex sessions can start a conversation where both partners can decide on their likes and dislikes. This can actually take them to a path where they enjoy sex much more and opens up about experimentation.
- Safe: Sex toys are completely safe when they are used with the right precautions. It is great for women as it doesn’t have the risk to get them pregnant. An important thing about a sex toy is that it should never be shared among people. It is one of the safest things that one can use when they are masturbating or having sex.
So, there are some of the benefits of a sex toy. You just need to use them for once to actually feel these benefits. Do get the toys from a reliable website so that the materials used in the sex toy are safe for sexual insertion.
Tips to Choose a Good Sex Toy:
We thought that it would be great for us to include some tips to choose a sex toy. If you follow them you will get a toy that you will enjoy for a long time. So, the tips to keep in mind are:
- Always go for a sex toy that is certified. This helps you to choose a toy that is safe for your body and health. Do not go for cheap knock offs as they may become harmful towards you. Get ready to pay a little bit more if you want a nice and safe sex toy.
- Decide on the type of sex toy that you will like. As we already mentioned above, there are several types of sex toys that are available for both genders. Try to do some research on the usual sex toys that are available in the Kenyan market. If you want a dildo, then we will recommend you to start with something small. Also, a vibrator is a great starting point for ladies.
- If you can go for silicone sex toys as they tend to be the best. You can easily sterilize silicone toys so you do not need to think about any potential harm.
- It is very important to read about the reviews of a sex toy before you buy it. The internet is a helpful place that will help you to know more about a sex toy and also give you insights for using it.
- In Kenya, the safest way to get a sex toy is through websites. So, visit the reliable and safe websites that stock different sex toys. Give each item a thought before you place an order for it.
Kenyans can have all the fun they want to have. Sex toys are revolutionary and more people should know about it. If you are someone who wants to have a better sex life, then think about getting a sex toy. These days the market is full of different options which are meant for optimum pleasure. Definitely try them out and bring a sexual revolution to make sex free from any restraints.
